We have to make mistakes in order to learn better. When we hurt others, we receive pain from that. The more those mistakes hurt us, it’s more than likely that a radical change will take place. So to say, when you are allowing someone else’s mistakes to hurt you, you are saving them while creating your own hell. Although, when you forgive and allow them to keep their mistake, you release their wrongdoing, allowing them to keep their own hell, which is ultimately providing them with change.